Today marks 1 year since I got to marry my wonderful husband, so I thought I’d reflect back on that special day and tell you all about our elopement.
Aaron and I chose to elope for many reasons such as us both having such disfunctional families, the fact that we had been together for 10 years and didn’t feel the need for a big fancy wedding, not to mention the costs of having a big wedding, and the main fact of just doing what we wanted to do without the unwanted input of family and friends. Weddings can get out of control, and you end up doing things to please others. We found by doing things ourselves, quietly and privately, it meant so much more.
We didn’t tell many people that we were getting married, except a couple close friends who helped us with some of the wedding details. It was hard to keep it a secret, especially because we had decided to elope over a year before we did.
Our wedding took place on our 10 year anniversary. We got married at the Old Treasury Building in Melbourne. It was quiet, and pretty quick, but it didn’t mean any less just because we chose to get married at a registry office. We got to choose our vowels, and could personalise the ceremony any way we wanted to. We were married by a lovely female celebrant in the presence of our best friends. It was so nice to just be focused on Aaron and him on me without the eyes of guests watching your every move.
After the official ceremony had ended, we made our way to a beautiful estate called Montsalvat in Eltham to have our wedding photos done and a celebratory lunch. I came across the estate years ago and just fell in love with the old buildings and gardens, it really made the most perfect spot to capture our love and happiness.
I had no real idea of the kind of dress I wanted, I just wanted something that suited me and my personality. I have a very talented friend who is a dress maker that I have worked with for many years during my pageantry days. I knew she would be the best person to help me with my dress as she knew my style and personality, and my oh my did she deliver. I love that my dress and vale were hand made and so unique, and more so that my friend Arlene was the one who made the magic happen.
Aaron and I went shopping for my ring at the usual jewellery chain stores in the shopping centres. After looking and trying on hundreds of rings, I just couldn’t find anything I liked. Everything just looked the same, and I didn’t want something that everyone else had.
One weekend we went antique store hopping which we both just love doing, and I found myself in the jewellery section of the packing house in Tyabb. This beautiful aquamarine stone caught my eye, and I asked to try it on. I instantly fell in love with this ring and it fit my ring finger perfectly! The counter keeper said that the ring only came in that morning, it felt like fate had aligned me with this ring, and I just knew it was the one, and so it came home with us. I never looked at it or wore it until Aaron placed it on my finger the day we said “I do”.
Our photographer was a good friend of mine who I actually went to high school with. Paige has a way with the camera, and her work is exceptional. Aaron and I knew that she was the perfect person to capture our day and that we would feel completely comfortable around her.
Our honeymoon destination was Port Douglas in Tropical North Queensland. We stayed in a hotel in Melbourne on our wedding night, then flew out to Cairns first thing the next morning. We had the best 7 days up there, eating out everyday, relaxing on the beach, and exploring around the area. We had our first holiday together in Port Douglas as girlfriend and boyfriend about 7 years ago, so it was nice to go back and relive it all. Port Douglas will always hold a special place in our hearts.
And that’s our Wedding and honeymoon in a nutshell. We loved our wedding and would do it the same way if we had to do it again. It worked for us, it was quiet, and simple but full of love and it was one of the best moments of our lives.
The finer details
Hair and make-up: I did myself.
Flowers: Peninsula Wild Flower. http://www.peninsulawildflower.com.au
Photographer: Paige Lee Photography. http://www.paigeleephotography.com.au
Venue: Montsalvat. http://www.montsalvat.com.au
Ring store: Tyabb Packing House. http://www.tyabbpackinghouseantiques.com.au
Dress: Arlene D’Monte Designs. (No longer dress making)